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Offline Addie

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Links for learning more about BDSM
« on: June 23, 2014, 09:22:20 PM »
Please place links to your most helpful BDSM sites in this thread for members' reference.  :spank:
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« Last Edit: August 25, 2014, 06:02:44 AM by fxyrx2 »
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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #2 on: August 29, 2014, 01:45:08 AM »
http://levenageorge.wordpress.com/6-questions-every-submissive-needs-to-ask-her-potential-dominant/  as it may go against our nature to ask q's, it's important we do so, otherwise we could end up in a situation that sets us poorly and is not ideal for dom or sub
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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #3 on: August 29, 2014, 03:08:36 AM »
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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #4 on: August 29, 2014, 03:22:35 AM »
http://bdsmunveiled.com/2013/05/warning-signs-of-fake-dominant.html warning, that site is kinda messy, you need to scroll down a bit before you can see the article but it's useful
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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #5 on: August 29, 2014, 04:22:07 PM »
http://bdsmunveiled.com/2013/05/warning-signs-of-fake-dominant.html warning, that site is kinda messy, you need to scroll down a bit before you can see the article but it's useful

That could double as warning signs of any abusive partner. Real good advice and so very important to know. :thumbs:

They have a page about pet play too. I like that.
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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #6 on: August 30, 2014, 12:02:23 AM »
sadly I found out the hard way about this, I hope that others find it useful and remember it. For whatever reason, ppl in general see Doms as abusive, subs as vics....not really so if they took the time to understand
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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #7 on: September 06, 2014, 05:09:42 AM »
sadly I found out the hard way about this, I hope that others find it useful and remember it. For whatever reason, ppl in general see Doms as abusive, subs as vics....not really so if they took the time to understand


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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #8 on: January 28, 2015, 12:31:15 AM »
http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Main_Page is a wiki devoted to BDSM terms. A good primer.

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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #9 on: March 06, 2015, 06:57:02 PM »
Thanks. Some good links.

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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #10 on: December 13, 2015, 02:08:47 PM »
@Addie is it just me or has much of the info I learnt from 10-15 years ago disappeared from the Internet? Lots of my old mainstream BDSM links are gone. Just a quick search of online BDSM info seems to lead to lots of blogs by fuckwits wot haven't a clue wot they're on about nor how insular their knowledge is and how far from the mainstream it is. I binned most of my mainstream books years ago so I haven't even got those to point people to anymore.

No wonder I've seen so many confused newbies.  :facepalm2:
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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #11 on: December 17, 2015, 03:47:03 PM »
@Addie bumping the above in case you didn't get the @mention. It seems they failed recently. Still curious about your own experience and sources though as I recall most of my sources were shit you shared with me long ago anyway.
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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #12 on: December 19, 2015, 08:12:31 PM »
@RayPistonprowl Thanks for reminding me. This is a long-term project of mine. I did a sweep of all my old links and found many outdated. I'll do some new searches and see if there's any I can recommend.

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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #13 on: February 07, 2017, 01:09:54 AM »
I have always found fet to be a great site but the censorship police have attacked the site so now I use one44.net as it is a great alternative to one44dotnet and the censorship police have not attacked the site yet LOL
« Last Edit: February 07, 2017, 01:11:34 AM by DaddyPeter »

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Re: Links for learning more about BDSM
« Reply #14 on: February 07, 2017, 01:37:24 PM »
@DaddyPeter It appears Fet's jettisoning of 'extreme' content has more to do with their credit card processors shutting down their processing of credit cards. I suspect some fundie fuckwit reported the rape arrest of that popular Australian dom member to their credit card processing companies and that's why they shut down their processing. Fet is hosted in Canada where site operators aren't as well protected legally against shit said by their posters (our host is in USA). Sadly that Fet member wot got arrested for rape had a tremendous Fet following, and I've seen some of the shit he was teaching all those starry-eyed followers and all I can say is it's only a wonder it took so long for him to get caught. He was a right predator. The guy was teaching some shit that was well off base. I've heard Fet still has some accurate information courtesy of experienced doms, but just as often you end up with rapist fuckwits doling out shit advice as though it were gospel when it's just shit.
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