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Offline Lust4Mina

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Your metaphorical cold shower?
« on: July 09, 2014, 07:08:27 PM »
What is that one point in your RF discussions, RP, or just idle chit chat that makes you feel like a bucket of ice has been dumped/stuffed in/on your naughty bits. ( for those who love ice just imagine rock salt :p )

For me it would be fisting, and anal. Maybe I would try anal in a non - forced setting but as a RF I freeze and want to invent an ass padlock. As for fisting I honestly cannot fit an average size cock so I know a fist just won't do anything for me but me painful... Lol

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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #1 on: July 09, 2014, 09:08:13 PM »
A lot, a whole lot.

Fisting, scat, incest, age play, any kind of pain directed at me - yes, even a face slap. It may not be the worst pain imaginable but it turns me off. Slaps just feel extra misogynistic somehow.

Choking. Touch my neck, I love that, just no squeezing.

Misogynistic language. Men in everyday life still think they get to refer to women as sluts, bitches and whores and get away with it, and they're right. Why'd I want more of that in my fantasy time? No. You want to unsettle me with language, that's fine, use compliments. From a rapist "I want to spend the rest of my life with you!" is way creepier than "u slut I raep u".

Forced orgasms and other godmode asshackery, you write what happens with your body, I'll write my own. And cunnilingus, I don't see the attraction, it sounds super icky and gross and do you even know how many gross diseases are in your mouth and eww.

Edit: I forgot a major one, pregnancy. You're lucky if you escape with both balls intact if you try to force this one on me... and I'm lucky if I don't have to go off somewhere and hyperventilate and cry a little. Suffice to say, touchy subject, don't go there.

Also being topped by another woman, nope. I prefer there to not be other women in the fantasy at all but I can be okay with it in situations like me being forced to help rape them. It's just all about the dude's enjoyment for me in those cases. I'm not interested in touching her except to extract pleasing sounds for him. Sorry ladies!

Also age play, no thanks, and don't expect me to refer to you by any kind of parental name. I already have a dad and a mom and I love them. ;)

And finally... gross stuff of any kind, I'm talking being dirty, stinky, most bodily fluids, just nope. Good clean outdoor dirt is generally okay though.
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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #2 on: July 10, 2014, 03:34:47 AM »
The victim being forced to either lick someone's asshole or to have any kind of contact with another lady's vagina. It's fine if someone does those things irl because they enjoy them but I don't want to do either, not even in my head. If a story I'm reading goes into these areas I skip a few paragraphs and pretend it never happened.

There are other things too but these are the ones that I've actually run into while wanking to stories and such.
Rapists should after all rape the victims exactly when, where and how the victim wants. That's how it works. Right?

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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #3 on: July 10, 2014, 04:25:02 AM »
1. Bad writing. Nuff said.

2. The "not us". If I settle down to fap to a piece of porn (usually written porn) then I'm likely to imagine the characters are me and people I know and desire. I don't think it's a secret that recently it's been me and VMB, though there is another lady here who did something to my libido last night who I will preserve the "innocence" of by not naming. Now, if the occasional physical descriptor pops up that is different from me and the others I imagine, then I can ignore that and keep going. However, some insist on spending all their time focusing  on the physical descriptors  so much that it's a too-frequent intrusion. If you are describing your dude as a tall, muscular handsome guy with a 10 inch dong while limp, then I'm out. It's not me. If you are constantly describing your victims blonde hair, slender figure, alabaster skin etc, then I'm out. It's not her. Yes, it might work for Maoiri and Angel, but not for me as an average/short/heavy dude with a thing for black women.

3. Related but different - predictable characters (physically or mentally). We've all read  porn that is filled with stock characters. There's no vision of their psychology. Every woman is a slender, blonde, big-titted, blue-eyed waif. Every man is a tall, studly, muscular white guy with a huge cock. Come on people - how limited is your libido? Is that really the only type of person that turns you on? Sure, I've admitted I love black women. However, I can throw in a blonde too from time to time. Especially in a group setting. Variety is the spice of life, so how come 90% of all characters out there look and sound exactly alike?

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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #4 on: July 10, 2014, 08:17:35 AM »
Who? What? You shower tease!

REDACTED, I guess my 2 and 3 work together. I can enjoy descriptions to an extent as long as I can relate to some extent. I know I se descriptions, but then a lot of my stuff is IR, so it's kind of essential. Like I say, if you want a blonde Barbie, meh, ok... But give me a Queen Latifah too... Let me relate to someone - the problem mostly is the blonde Barbie and hot stud are overused tropes in fiction.


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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #5 on: July 12, 2014, 05:26:12 PM »
Darn it, I love humor. It kind of sneaks into my stories more often than not...
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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #6 on: July 13, 2014, 02:46:22 AM »
1. Bad writing. Nuff said.

This. People who can't write coherently, shouldn't write, period.

# So drugging or unconsciousness is fine for transport or other arrangements. But not when the actions starts.

This too. If you can't (or don't want to) describe it, you shouldn't write it.

Other than these, I'm pretty open. I don't like poop play, though it can work with a skillful writer, and snuff/necrophilia do nothing for me, but if they're done skillfully, they CAN work. I might not like them, but if they're done right they won't necessarily have the "cold shower" effect on me.
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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #7 on: July 14, 2014, 05:05:05 AM »
Man, a hell of a lot of turn offs.

Piss
Scat
Forced lesbian things.. the thought.. ugh.
Asshole licking
Vomit
Death
Maiming
Dismemberment
Choking
Verbal abuse
Anal.. but only if its spur of the moments. See scat


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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #8 on: July 14, 2014, 05:09:58 AM »
Forgot one more

Ads to mouth. Ok watching it.. but god protect the man who would make me do it.. unless your Leo lol

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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #9 on: July 14, 2014, 06:04:46 AM »
Lol I guess so

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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
« Reply #10 on: July 14, 2014, 04:10:21 PM »
You girls are post-ethical. ~AdamWantsYou
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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
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Re: Your metaphorical cold shower?
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