Humiliation, Embarrassment and Forced Exhibitionism

[johncbb]

Hi all,

'first time here and I'm quite excited to have stumbled upon this place.  After reading through many threads, I realized a lot of them weren't focused on the strictly embarrassment side of non-consent. 

Here is an example: a mom is driving her son and his friend to school.  She's pulled over in front of the drop-off area by police.  The police suspect she's drunk and conduct a sobriety test (e.g. she's asked to touch her toes while keeping her knees locked, to test her balance, which raises her skirt up to the beginning of her panties, exposing herself to her son and his friend).  The police give her a pat down, a strip search, and eventually a full cavity search.  She's completely humiliated by her exposure.  No one else is interrupting the police after they threaten that they will prosecute anyone who intercedes with the investigation.  They suspect it's abuse of authority, but what can they do?  Later on, the police bring the mom and her son back to their office where she is blackmailed into sex with them and eventually with her own son.

What are your thoughts?  Does this do anything for you like it does for me?  I have a plethora of more fantasies like this: all centered around the themes of forced exhibitionism, humiliation, forced to strip, blackmail, abuse of authority, etc.

[Mister Japes]

   I bleedin LOVE it!  Totally perverse and overly thought out but it genuinely benefits from it 

[johncbb]

What can I say - I've thought a lot about this    'ended up writing a fictional story about on literotica (just search for my name there).

[Unmasker]

I love fantasies where the police abuse their powers, and the way they do it in your story is genius!

[Anguissette]

I like that, but what I like a little better is kind of the opposite of forced exhibitionism -- where you are forced to try to prevent from being noticed. For example, your rapist and you are alone in the room but family members are just in the next room. The shame of essentially helping your rapist even as he hurts you is delicious as is the potential interplay -- exactly how far will you go to keep them from finding out such a shameful thing?

[johncbb]

I like that, but what I like a little better is kind of the opposite of forced exhibitionism -- where you are forced to try to prevent from being noticed. For example, your rapist and you are alone in the room but family members are just in the next room. The shame of essentially helping your rapist even as he hurts you is delicious as is the potential interplay -- exactly how far will you go to keep them from finding out such a shameful thing?

Oooh, I like that angle.  The exposure and humiliation of it all becomes the coercion.  I agree that the actual rape / sex is best kept hidden.  The exhibitionism part is purely a humiliation act because the witnesses aren't aware of the reasons why the women is exposing herself / being exposed.  If it's obvious that someone is raping her, the bystanders would (hopefully) put a stop to it.

[Anguissette]

Oooh, I like that angle.  The exposure and humiliation of it all becomes the coercion.  I agree that the actual rape / sex is best kept hidden.  The exhibitionism part is purely a humiliation act because the witnesses aren't aware of the reasons why the women is exposing herself / being exposed.  If it's obvious that someone is raping her, the bystanders would (hopefully) put a stop to it.

In my mind it would progress from one to the other, beginning with being so embarassed I help my rapist hide it from my friends and family and later reaching the plateau of total defilement when even if someone saw me they would just think I was a whore after all, not being raped.

[johncbb]

Oooh, I like that angle.  The exposure and humiliation of it all becomes the coercion.  I agree that the actual rape / sex is best kept hidden.  The exhibitionism part is purely a humiliation act because the witnesses aren't aware of the reasons why the women is exposing herself / being exposed.  If it's obvious that someone is raping her, the bystanders would (hopefully) put a stop to it.

In my mind it would progress from one to the other, beginning with being so embarassed I help my rapist hide it from my friends and family and later reaching the plateau of total defilement when even if someone saw me they would just think I was a whore after all, not being raped.

Hot.  In most of my fantasies, the rape never continues that deep into corruption.  It's usually only a couple weeks, maybe months, but never full on years to the point where the women becomes someone else entirely.  That would be quite a story to write! 

[RayPistonprowl]

Welcome, [member=3271]johncbb[/member] ! Were you ever on RapeDesires ? Lots of us started there before it went tits up. I do like how your wicked mind works.

[grantmeawishh]

[member=3271]johncbb[/member] Welcome!!

I love humiliation.  My biggest complaint about a lot of rape fantasies is that they delve too quickly into the final act without taking time to breathe and relish the victim's predicament.  A couple ways I love to daydream about humiliating my playthings are:

• Forcing her to wear something skimpy but still attention-grabbing and over the top, particularly if she's more shy and modest.  This is part of why I love Slave Leia in Return of the Jedi so much - the ridiculousness of the ornate costume almost draws more attention to her embarrassment than if she had been wearing even less.
• Forcing her to try to resist her own body.  I love the thought of playing mind games with her that involve turning her own body against her - like teasing her with a vibrator and telling her that I promise I won't lay another finger on her if only she can manage to not get wet.  Or that she'll get spanked or choked every time she lets out an involuntary moan.

[johncbb]

[member=3271]johncbb[/member] Welcome!!

I love humiliation.  My biggest complaint about a lot of rape fantasies is that they delve too quickly into the final act without taking time to breathe and relish the victim's predicament.  A couple ways I love to daydream about humiliating my playthings are:

• Forcing her to wear something skimpy but still attention-grabbing and over the top, particularly if she's more shy and modest.  This is part of why I love Slave Leia in Return of the Jedi so much - the ridiculousness of the ornate costume almost draws more attention to her embarrassment than if she had been wearing even less.
• Forcing her to try to resist her own body.  I love the thought of playing mind games with her that involve turning her own body against her - like teasing her with a vibrator and telling her that I promise I won't lay another finger on her if only she can manage to not get wet.  Or that she'll get spanked or choked every time she lets out an involuntary moan.

Hi [member=1332]grantmeawishh[/member]

Yes, I agree completely.  All of my fantasies involve a woman who's slowly forced to go through progressively more and more humiliating situations.  Straight to fucking just feels like a quick cop-out to 100% submission.  Of course, this is all quite cerebral - in truth humiliating acts of forced exhibitionism and groping are what get my cock hard, sometimes more than sex, and I don't think much about why that's the case.

Like you, "forced to wear" situations pop in my fantasies quite often.  Part 2 of "Mom and the police officer" has a long scene involving a mom who's told/blackmailed to ask her son to go shopping with her and to buy anything the son wants her to.  The son is aware that his mom is going to be forced to buy what he wants (though the mom doesn't know her son is involved).  In these fantasies, it's important to me to keep some realism in regards to the outfits.  I HATE how porn/etc have women dressing like street walkers.  The outfits in my fantasies always show more skin than the women would like, but never look completely out of place in their setting.  Just enough to get her embarrassed and uncomfortable.  I try to work these fetishes in real life as well with my girlfriend (she's caught on by this point that I enjoy it when she goes out in the shorter of the dress options and even more so without underwear).

The idea of using a woman's (or man's) body against themselves never really crossed my mind, but I find your example of it incredibly erotic.  I might include a scene based on it in what on my future works.  For example, a mom forced to strip and dance in front of her family by a group of rapists.  "If your son doesn't get hard, you won't have to blow him."  Or a teacher forced to wear one of those remote control vibrators during class.  The student hits the button ever so often and tells her that if she doesn't moan once, she won't have to give up her ass later that night.  Welp, got me excited...

[grantmeawishh]

Or a teacher forced to wear one of those remote control vibrators during class.  The student hits the button ever so often and tells her that if she doesn't moan once, she won't have to give up her ass later that night.  Welp, got me excited...

Remote control vibrators are so hot.  I love variations on the scenario you just described - someone forced to secretly wear one that's being controlled remotely by her rapist, knowing that no matter how often or how hard he triggers it, she has to do everything in her power to maintain composure...even as she can feel herself starting to get wet and her legs starting to shake...

 

[Jersonzu]

I love it when victims put on a brave front or pretend not to care on the brink of or in the midst of total violation. I like that look of humiliation better than if they were emotionally wrecked, crying and moaning. I feel that a stable, conscious state of mind allows them to absorb the humiliation properly. Like how Teri offers herself to save her daughter in the first season of 24.

"I won't fight."

That was SUCH a turn on. You are inviting someone to rape you in front of your daughter. Then calmly following your rapist into a room to be his whore. It's so much fun trying to picture her state of mind.

[johncbb]

I love it when victims put on a brave front or pretend not to care on the brink of or in the midst of total violation. I like that look of humiliation better than if they were emotionally wrecked, crying and moaning. I feel that a stable, conscious state of mind allows them to absorb the humiliation properly. Like how Teri offers herself to save her daughter in the first season of 24.

"I won't fight."

That was SUCH a turn on. You are inviting someone to rape you in front of your daughter. Then calmly following your rapist into a room to be his whore. It's so much fun trying to picture her state of mind.

Definitely enjoy this, but also do like to see some resistance.  The victim should attempt to keep themselves together with  small bursts of their true humiliation showing through.

[randomgirl]

Lovely discussion. Keep going y'all.