I, actually, have what many would call a "traditional" marriage. My wife stayed home and took care of the kids while I worked. She is a "housewife", and a damn good one. That's a bigger, more complex job than most realize. She does all the cooking, cleaning etc, and yes, tries her best to see to it that I can relax when I'm home.
It does mean that I have to work more, so that we can afford for her to stay home.
I can always have my way on any decision, if I insist. There will however, be a price, I just have to be sure that the price is worth the issue (most times it's not), but basically, it's her house to run as she sees fit.
Sex wise, yes, she tries to see to it I get plenty. I, in turn, see to it she has a good time too, and am considerate enough not to even think about it when she doesn't feel well.