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Offline Surrender2U

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Abusive relationship
« on: May 28, 2015, 10:54:38 PM »
I honestly don't know if this is even a thing. And just an FYI - I do not ever wish this upon anyone in real life.

I don't know if it's a submissive thing with me, but I crave being frightened, scared, overpowered, etc. by a man. Not just in the bedroom, but outside of it too. Sometimes I want to be that 1950's wife that has to do everything that the husband says.

Physically, he would beat me. Not all the time, though, but enough where I'd have to hide the bruises from family and friends. It would almost always end with him raping me.

Emotionally, psychological and at a social level. This is the biggest thing for me. Every guy that I would talk to, I'd hear about it and I get a guilt trip and punished. After he beats me, he would say he's sorry, that he didn't mean to do it. I wouldn't be allowed to see family or friends. He builds me up, just to break me with his words.

I found this and thought it kind of describes me...


I abuse her when I want sex because her feigning refusal and fearing a beating turns me on. That, and I hit and punch my women whenever they say or do something stupid (as women oftentimes do), or if I come home and need to relieve my frustrations by using her as a punching bag; whereupon afterwards, once she's black & blue, and exhausted from the beating, I then savagely, selfishly, and excruciatingly RAPE HER to my heart's content - my mind solely focused on my own pleasure. And all the while...she enjoys it. It makes her wet. It gives her orgasm(s). It keeps her satisfied, contented, and most importantly, it's what makes her happy.


Anyone else into this or am I just flipping crazy?

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #1 on: May 28, 2015, 11:06:20 PM »
Honestly this is what I want, its the dark fantasy I would love to have but its impossible to have and I know that. (though abusing FAs tits on a regular basis helps remove that part)

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #2 on: May 29, 2015, 05:47:47 AM »
Been there done it and worn the T shirt.It's a horrific thing to live through and the reality of it is far removed from the fantasy.

The fear of saying or doing something wrong shreds your nerves,the constant worrying that the slightest thing is going to get you a kicking..Done the wrong dinner?-You'll pay for that with a black eye and some bruised ribs..Talked during a tv show?-You'll pay for that with endless punches to the stomach,til you're so winded you struggle to breathe,being beaten daily,raped,it's a vicious cycle.

The social isolation is unbearable,the slide of your self confidence and self worth til you feel like an empty shell is soul destroying.

I think being submissive at least you know your Dom cares for you,loves you,and will do anything he can to protect you-an abusive relationship is as far removed from that as it can be.

I lived with it for 18 months or so-8 years later I'm still not fully recovered from it,the damage, the nightmares,they just don't go away.

So no,it's not a fantasy of mine having lived the reality of it,but each to their own and all that.

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #3 on: May 29, 2015, 12:48:09 PM »
@Surrender2U No, you're not crazy. Many people have submissive fantasies like yours. But as wetslut noted, the reality is far removed from the fantasy, so it's important for people to have realistic expectations! A submissive can stop the "abuse" anytime by calling her safeword!

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #4 on: May 29, 2015, 04:26:15 PM »
Yes, I should have put at the top of this thread...

Fantasy only!!!


I am sooooooo sorry you had to deal with that, wetslut, I wish I could kick his fucking ass. My friend was in an abusive relationship. I watched her come to work with black eyes and a busted lip. But she loved him and he was always sorry. I never understood any of it.

This is for roleplaying only. I say my safeword and be done with it. I think it would be fun to play out. though. :) (it probably sounds/looks better in my head than irl, tbh)

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #5 on: May 29, 2015, 04:52:22 PM »
@wetslut  Fucking hell, that's some serious shit.  I had to put up with similar physical abuse (bar the sexual side) for over a decade as a child from an out of control, overly aggressive, alcoholic father who was too weak to assert himself in the real world and took it out on his kids.  I know the fear, the unpredictability and how it jades every relationship and potential relationship you enter, even after the abuse has finished.  At school I was such a timid wreck that I became easy prey for bullies and only force of will got me through the seemingly un-ending physical and psychological abuse.  I'm damaged goods, probably always will be, I'd imagine you're the same.


@Surrender2U  My rape fantasies only manifest in dominant, controlling sex.  I like a woman to be strong and independent in the real world...  Makes them better sport for a good raping  ;)  Who the fuck feels powerful overcoming a simpering weakling?  Real men are strong enough not to need control over a woman.  In my experience people almost only seek to control something if they are too inadequate to deal with it on its own terms...  Thus spake well_hung_jack lol
« Last Edit: May 29, 2015, 04:57:47 PM by well_hung_jack »

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #6 on: May 29, 2015, 06:23:14 PM »
S2U-Honestly if I derailed your thread I apologise,It is a subject very close to my heart obviously-and I kind of had in my head to show the reverse side of a fantasy,does that make sense?!.

I do want to make it clear that everyones fantasy is their own and I don't believe or think it's my place to judge-what suits someone and turns someone on is their own business.

I'm sorry for your friend,it's very hard to explain why you stay-but the simplest way to explain it is you stay through fear,because you're too frightened to leave,that and the fact you believe all the 'You're shit,no one else will have you,you're fucking lucky I put up with you' manipulation that goes on,I wasn't allowed to work so covering bruises wasn't something I faced,if we did go somewhere any bruises would be on my body-hidden,if nothing was planned,well he wouldn't give a shit where his fists or boots landed.

Jack..Yeah I'm damaged without doubt,but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger right?-I'm sorry you suffered too x.

S2U-You're more than welcome to come and kick his arse with me any day,we'll have a RC girls day out!  :thumbs:  :*

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #7 on: May 29, 2015, 07:45:19 PM »

S2U-You're more than welcome to come and kick his arse with me any day,we'll have a RC girls day out!  :thumbs:  :*

Definitely! I'm game! :D We'll bring all the ladies to show him some lovin.



@Surrender2U  My rape fantasies only manifest in dominant, controlling sex.  I like a woman to be strong and independent in the real world...  Makes them better sport for a good raping  ;)  Who the fuck feels powerful overcoming a simpering weakling?  Real men are strong enough not to need control over a woman.  In my experience people almost only seek to control something if they are too inadequate to deal with it on its own terms...  Thus spake well_hung_jack lol

Oh baby, I am strong and independent. If only you knew.  :spank:  >:) And you are talking real life also ^^. This thread is about a fantasy of mine - I would NEVER ever ever allow this to happen in real life, I would fucking kick his ass or leave, simple as that.

Sorry to hear about your abusive father. That really sucks you had to go through life like that.


Also - I am bipolar when it comes to fantasies. This thought could easily disgust me next month and I'll be thinking of a slow, nice and easy raping. The next month I'll want to be murdered after the rape. All I know is that I want to try it ALL!!!


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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #8 on: May 29, 2015, 09:47:47 PM »
S2U-You're more than welcome to come and kick his arse with me any day,we'll have a RC girls day out!  :thumbs:  :*

Count me in. :bat:
We'll beat the shit out of a douchebag and then go eat something bad for us for dinner to celebrate. :thumbs:

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #9 on: May 29, 2015, 10:08:02 PM »
Count me in. :bat:
We'll beat the shit out of a douchebag and then go eat something bad for us for dinner to celebrate. :thumbs:


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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #10 on: May 30, 2015, 07:53:20 AM »
I love this clip, Death Proof isn't it?  Girls who stay in shape are hot.  Girls who stay in shape AND know how to fight are fucking goddesses!  This clip turns me on so much, I SERIOUSLY want some rough and tumble with that mousey haired babe.





@Surrender2U  BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!   :))   You started off an interesting thread with the very best of intentions and look what a can of worms you opened!   :rofl:   You can't win 'em all I suppose eh?  I'm glad you're the strong, independent type though...  It'll make it all the sweeter when I drag you to the ground and turn you into my helpless little fuck-bitch   ;)

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #11 on: May 30, 2015, 01:17:05 PM »
I love this clip, Death Proof isn't it?

Yes. I was just watching the movie two nights ago.

I noticed that those three women basically left their friend to potentially get raped as a "deposit" on the white car they were test-driving - by basically saying their friend was a porn actress and implying she was likely to put out for the owner. They're not very nice people (I hope either the car's owner was more honourable than he looked, or else they treated him the way they treated the "deathproof" guy in that clip!)

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #12 on: May 31, 2015, 06:46:11 AM »
I love this clip, Death Proof isn't it?

Yes. I was just watching the movie two nights ago.

I noticed that those three women basically left their friend to potentially get raped as a "deposit" on the white car they were test-driving - by basically saying their friend was a porn actress and implying she was likely to put out for the owner. They're not very nice people.


'Not very nice people'...   :rofl:


When I drag some slut to the ground and pump her full of cum it's fulfilling a primal urge to find a worthy mate.  I want the mother of my children to be a bad-ass she-wolf not some simpering goody two shoes!  The fact that she's a total bitch makes her MORE attractive!   ;)

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #13 on: May 31, 2015, 09:12:05 AM »
When I drag some slut to the ground and pump her full of cum it's fulfilling a primal urge to find a worthy mate.  I want the mother of my children to be a bad-ass she-wolf not some simpering goody two shoes!  The fact that she's a total bitch makes her MORE attractive!   ;)

I can be BOTH a bad-ass she-wolf AND a simpering goody two shoes! In fact, that practically is the whole of Kitty Umbrass in a nutshell!

(But no interest in being the mother of your children, soz.)

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Re: Abusive relationship
« Reply #14 on: May 31, 2015, 11:09:32 PM »
I'll never understand that mindset, but it's not my place to judge. It's more like something I don't think I would ever get.

 

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