Well I'm the one who it 'Struck a nerve with'...if you want to put it that way,I do think I mentioned at the end of my first post that it was 'Each to their own and all that'-and also said in my second post that I wanted to make it clear I in no way shape or form think it's up to me to judge etc on peoples fantasies.
All I did was make a post explaining the reality of a fantasy,I suppose you could call it the dark side of it..a fantasy explained in real terms,it was never intended to drive someone to think they couldn't post anymore topics etc,but yes,it did strike a nerve with me,it had to,you don't go through something like that and it doesn't affect you,even years later.
I'm not a big thread starter and I don't post much in the rape topics,why?,cos I don't even have the fantasies much anymore,my fantasies have shifted in a whole new direction.
I would also like to make it clear that in no way was I criticising S2U.I would've hoped people knew me better than that.
So this isn't a flounce but I think out of the two of us S2U has more to give to the board than I do,I made a post that was perhaps a trigger reaction to a scenario I lived through-that's it,but if it causes a poster to consider their position on the board,when they contribute such good and interesting threads-well I think it's best if I hit the high road instead.
It's been great fun knowing you all.